Wednesday, April 14, 2010
is this it?
today i talked to my boyfriend and asked why he has been actin funny? or what was wrong lately? all he said was the navy makes him that way? im tired of always makin excuses for him and trying to do my best for him....im the only one holding us up sometimes. the more i talked the more he realized his wrong and realized mine. he apologized but he always apologizes?so i ask you , be honest, is this it? shud i continue to work on us or move on? if its harsh and true i can deal with it i will not be offended.
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Hey Marcedis, I have to say it's only you who can make this decision, No one else. I say this because at the end of the day you will say I made this decision on my own with the help of no one else. You will become more content with yourself. I say when you really get sick and tired of being sick and tired you will make your decision. I made a decision like this not to long ago and the guy was in the Navy too, (weird,huh)but,it took me 7 years to walk away. I'm fine with my decision because I did it on my own. Since I dont know everything, possibly talk it out. Good Luck
ReplyDeleteI agree, you have to make it on your own. You will be the one who has to live with it, just think of the future and what you want out of a relationship. Are the cons outweighing the pros in this relationship. In the end though, only you can make that decision.
ReplyDeleteI agree also. Relationships take a lot of work but in the end only you can determine if it's worth all that work your putting in to it. Is there a future, goals..things like that. I've found myself asking that same question in past relationships. (and now they are just that...past.) it sucks when you have to start doubting whether or not to end things with the person you are sharing your life with. It brings on a lot of insecurities. Just don't over think about it. That tends to make things appear worse than they really are. Have a heart to heart, tell him that "sorry" isn't always going to fix things, that you need to see changes. Been there done that girl. Listen to your heart, but don't give it complete control.
ReplyDeleteBeing a military wife this is a very old argument for us. My husband is 100% military. His work has to come first. It is different from civilian life. Civilians can take time off or refuse to move. Military has no choice. Sometimes my husband goes into military mode and forgets there are two of us. We do get into fights and he apologizes for being too focused. However if you feel this is not worth the fight, now is the time to walk away before you really commit. You are having a long distance relationship that also puts a lot of pressure and trust issues get in the way. do what you feel is right.
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